Jude, smiling, sitting on a cream-colored sofa in a room with a large abstract painting and a potted plant nearby. She wears a sleeveless green top, beige pants, and matching beige booties, with a beige blanket draped over the sofa.

Jude, smiling outdoors at sunset, wearing a sleeveless top and high-waisted pants, with trees in the background.

Before you tie the knot…

I’ve worked every side of the wedding industry and have been to just about every celebration of love you can think of. The tour guide in me absolutely lives to give insider tips, expert recs, and share stories from behind the scenes.

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What are ninja vows at a wedding?

Ninja vows are one of the most reliable ways to get everyone chuckling - and to add a little surprise and spice to your ceremony. If you’ve never heard of them before, here’s the full low-down…

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How to write an inclusive LGBTQIA+ Wedding Ceremony Script

Yes, a wedding ceremony is a celebration of love - but, for many, there are other themes they wish to see come through in their day: identity, belonging, and pride.
I’ve written this blog post as a launchpad, with tips to create a ceremony that celebrates queer love in all its brilliance!